tell me why ur so hard to forget dont remind me I’m not over it.. Tell me why i can’t seem to face the truth.. & I really dont what to do..
@adhityadi it only works out right once. Every other relationship will end at some point
I still feel so much anxiety about what I’m going to do with my life, whether I’ll achieve enough, etc.
@duffmcduffee anxiety is what happens just before you do something great. Or just after you do nothing. #advice figure out what type u have
Found an old friend online & am wondering if I should reach out to him. We had a falling out 22 years ago after being best boyhood friends.
@thinkBIG_blog seems to me you kinda have to. If you need to say sorry, say it and if you need to forgive, do it. My #advice to you.
why do i never feel like i belong anywhere?
@heyylush don’t know your story but by checking your tweets for the last 24, my #advice is stop feeling sorry for youself & get out & enjoy
@freople there are many people outside. i don’t like being around people.
@heyylush hard to live that way. But you already know that. What’s wrong with people?
@freople i guess it’s just hard to relate. i’m too different. and big groups of people either scare or irritate me, depending on my mood.
@heyylush truth is, big groups are scary for most people. My #advice… Don’t make decisions based on fear. Take a chance, start small & gro
@freople i consider three people a big group. anyway i do try… sometimes.
@heyylush everybody has different idea of “big”. Feelings r the same just the # of people is different. What does “too different” mean?
@freople difference in characters, possibly? i don’t fit in.
@heyylush you know that “fitting in” is all a lie right? Even if it’s only a half truth it’s certainly a shitty goal.
@@freople maybe. sometimes i delight in being different. sometimes i just wish there were people who understood me.
@heyylush Sounds lonely. I could probably come up with some trite quote here but really the rest is up to you. Remember you have a choice.
I hate it when I start writing, only to worry that I’m too closely resembling my influences. Any tricks to making SURE you’re original? lol
Don’t worry about when you write it the first time. You can always catch that stuff in the re-write.
I need some advice… How is it that someone can claim to miss you, yet when you give them another chance they do the same ole stuff?
Missing someone and what a person does is not often related. What’s the real reason they miss you? Answer that and get truth
@freople that’s deep, and true… Thanks
Finding memorabilia of relationships past in my room. Hesitant to just throw away. Maybe I’ll get advice on Wed…
Put it all in a box. Put that box in storage. Pull it out in a few years. Laugh/cry/laugh & then toss it.
Well, it has been couple years now. Almost trying to suppress emotion though. Want to throw away, but part of me.. still cares.. =/
You’ll probably always care to some extent it’s whether or not you can let go that will will determine toss or keep.
I’ve moved on mostly, it’s just throwing away a huge photo of her is symbolically strong lol. Thanks so much for your replies btw!
I rarely throw pictures away. But I’ve got a lot of them stored in boxes. You’re welcome and have a good night. I’m out!
Why is it when I have to do something the next day I can never sleep???
I have same problem. Try getting up, drinking h2o, writting what’s spinning in your head and then relax like u don’t care.
I have tried it before and it works sometimes but not tonight
Hmmm.
i jus want love and happiness. why do i feel like something is always missing?
Love and happiness are Always there for you. Your love belongs to U @ can’t b provided by anyone else, not even him.
thanks but its hard to convince my mind that..
It takes practice. You’ll get there, even if it hurts for while. Remember, love your friends and they’ll love ya back.
“The strong can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the weak.” Taken from real life.
Um… respectfully… that’s a load of hooey. But I’ll forgive you.
@freople I feel very sorry for you. For you have yet to live
So your son lies to you, you don’t forgive and never trust him again? Don’t feel sorry for me. Living just fine. I’ll forgive you.
I didn’t get a response back from this guy but all of this did get me thinking…
I certainly understand the idea that forgivness can be percieved as a weakness but as most things that are percieved as weekness (kindness, love, etc…) it often takes much more strength to forgive than to hold the grudge.
I have this idea that our minds contain specific boxes for certain ideas, emotions and feelings. The kicker is that these boxes can not hold an infinate amount of crap. Eventually the box that holds hate (or any negative crap) fills up, bulges at the sides and spills over into other boxes until hate is infecting the other boxes in your mind. Being able to forgive and therefore love lowers the level of hate that would build up and spill over into other boxes.
Ok, so the boxes thing is a little weird, but it works for me. The point is… and this is good advice…
Take time to forgive, it’s the only way a relationship can move forward.
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